Behavior
One wise old man was sitting on the side of the road in front of the village. One passenger was crossing the road, he asked the old man. I left my village and I want to settle in this village, what kind of people live in this village?
The wise old man asked the passenger, what kind of people lived in your village?
The passenger replied: “Vile, cruel, characterless people live there.
The wise old man said, “There are such people here too.”
The passenger received an answer, and then went on his way.
After a while, another passenger came, an old man was sitting in that place. He asked the old man what kind of people live in this village?
The old man also asked him what kind of people lived in your village? The passenger said, “There are kind, sweet, gentle and good people living in our village,” the old man said, “You can find such people here too.
Opposite of our behavior
“As a rule, we do not look at the world as it is, we look at the world as we are, people often behave the opposite of our behavior, if our intentions are not good, then we will think that other people's intentions are also not good. Jan Shocker.”
What thoughts we hold about others, they also keep such thoughts about us.. If we think about good manners about others, adopt good manners, maintain good behavior, help others in their work, maintain good relationships with others, respect others, then they will also think well of us, adopt good manners, respect us, and also they know how we respect them.
If we think negatively about others, accept negative behavior, that they are from the lower class, we are from the upper class, do not respect them, what type of behavior we choose with others, they also choose this behavior with us, we misunderstand that if we have a lot of money, we will become rich, then other people will respect us.
I don't think people respect us if we have a lot of money. No one respects others for their money, people respect others for their behavior.
If a person's behavior is good, then people respect him. If the behavior is not good, then people are not interested in it.
If you show interest in other people, then they will show interest in you.
I have a house in 1994 in Ukraine, every day I bought things in wholesale stores. There was a wholesale company near our hostel that brings things from Poland. One day I went to buy something from this company. At that time, the Labor party was absent, but the owner of the company was there. I told him I needed things for the store. He said "OK", then I gave him money, he divided the things, carried them with me and put them in the car. The car was parked about a hundred meters away from the company. In addition, he has twenty cabins, many buses, about fifty workers worked with him, but he was a simple man, his behavior was good with people, he did not think that he was more than others. He was a rich man, but he wore simple clothes.
One day I was sitting on a local bus. I saw a man who was also sitting on that local bus, he was the owner of this company, he was young and simple. Of course, earning a lot of money is not such a big action, but after earning money, it is important what kind of behavior you demonstrate to people, because for money you can buy good things, but you can't buy a good friend, for money you can build a big building, but you can buy respect.
Change your thoughts
Therefore, the great Napoleon said;
"You change your thoughts, then everything will automatically change around your world.”
Of course, no matter what kind of relationships we establish with people and in what position we will meet people, we also get such a result. If we think that they are characterless, indecent, evil, immoral and not worthy of respect, what you think, they throw flowers at you, of course not, they also behave in a similar way with you. To live with respect in the world, behavior plays a big role.
Change your thoughts, establish good relationships with people, come up with your own game, help others in their work, listen to people. If someone asks you, don't answer him, if you answered him, it means that you and he are equal, if you didn't answer him, then you are more.
One scientist said that people didn't recognize the words from there, they recognized them from their work. You are impressed by the views of people, every day you are in control and balance. People are watching and checking your steps because you are a member of society. Every step you take will be accompanied by good or bad moments. Society is not interested in your wealth, but it is interested in your existence. First of all, you have to know yourself, gain control over yourself, and in your behavior there is an acquaintance with your future.
“Whatever behavior you do with other people, they also do that behavior with you.”
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Written by Shaikof Baloch